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But if Valentine's Day has you thinking about finding love, the holiday could be a good motivation to start.
Our experts offered these 12 tips to boost your chances: That’s like saying, “You’ll find a job when you’re least looking for it,” said Pepper Schwartz, a relationship expert and sociology professor at the University of Washington.
It’s possible, but rarely happens.“For the most part, people who wait for a job are unemployed,” she added.
“For me, it’s just an excuse for being scared to go and put the effort in.
Yes, it happens, but no, it’s not a good strategy.”Schwartz does agree with the underlying sentiment of that saying: Don’t be desperate.
Put the effort in to find someone, but don’t act like any breathing body will do.
Bite the bullet and try online dating for a big pool of potential candidates, Schwartz added.
If you’re already online, try a different dating site.
Good men and good women are everywhere — if you’re looking, noted Bela Gandhi, a TODAY contributor and founder of the Smart Dating Academy in Chicago.
She’s amazed people often complain they don’t meet anyone, but then go out and keep their heads down the entire time, staring at their devices.
Wherever you are, be present and look around the room to see who is looking at you.