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The online dating dance usually includes similar moves no matter who catches your eye. Eventually someone drops their phone number and the other responds. When it comes, you exchange flirty little messages for a few days and learn about one another.You’ve done well so far, but now her digits are burning in your brain.Are you going to ace the first call or spiral down in flames?Surprisingly, the first phone call in an online dating relationship can be tricky even if you’ve been feeling comfortable up until this point.
Texting is impersonal – practically an afterthought. Have Some Questions in Mind Before Calling If you think you can wing it, good luck.The moment she picks up on the other end, your mind may go completely blank.Give yourself a life raft by practicing some questions before you dial her number.Think about the things you’ve been talking about in your messages or the things in her profile that you have in common.These are all areas that you can ask her about to keep the conversation going.Listen If you are doing 90% of the talking, you can bet she is getting more than a little bored on her end.You can win some serious points if you show authentic interest in her life and experiences.Ask her open ended questions that allow her to really get into the conversation.Respond to the things she is saying and move the conversation back to her often. Try to end the call on a positive note and put the ball in her court. If not, there are plenty of fish still left in the sea.Evaluate Make sure to take the pulse of the conversation. Does she seem unenthusiastic, or is she answering with short yes and no answers? On the other hand, if the conversation flows smoothly and naturally and you lose track of time, then you’re making a real connection. If the call is going great, then don’t let her off the hook.Ask if you can call her again soon, or, if you feel the timing is right, ask if you can meet in person.